Wednesday, October 9, 2019

The 75th Anniversary of October 9, 1944...A day that lives on in my heart...



This will always be a special day to me and so yes, I'll post this once again. October 9, 1944 is the date my Dad was wounded during WWII. His action that day earned him the Silver Star as well the Purple Heart. He later was awarded the Bronze Star for action during the Battle of the Bulge. Anyone that knew my Dad, knew him to be a quiet, sweet, fun loving man, and not someone that you would ever suspect was considered a war hero. In all the research I’ve done for The Heart of the Soldier, I’m amazed at the challenges those serving rose above and accomplished. In my Dad’s case, as part of the Normandy invasion, they landed in July, 1944. There were many days of fighting but on October 9th, their platoon was ambushed in France and there were 20 casualties, including the platoon leader who was killed. My Dad told us that the tanks were behind them, unaware of the ambush since the area they were moving through was considered secure. My Father knew they needed to alert the tank unit of the need for support. With little to no cover, Dad had to dive behind the only thing available, a farmer's field of cabbage plants. In the process, he was shot 3 times, once through the nose and also through his shoulder and arm but this did not stop him. My Mom would then always tell us that the Germans were aiming for his head as they knew what he was trying to accomplish. The Silver Star paperwork said that under heavy enemy fire, he rallied the remainder of the platoon and led them forward and that he led a section of tank destroyers into his area to cover his men while they took up new positions. Although wounded, he continued to lead until he was eventually evacuated due to his injuries. "His aggressive leadership and gallantry are in keeping with the finest traditions of the United States Infantrymen." On a lighter note, when he awoke, he was actually found himself to be in the part of the hospital where the German soldiers were treated. We always suspected that it was due to his ruddy Scottish complexion. Anyway, he asked for a cup of coffee and the nurses went into shock, then action, when they heard him speak English. They immediately rushed to get him out of that section. 

I was actually working on The Heart of a Soldier today, my book in process that centers around Dad's letters written home during the war, my parents' love story, as well as the path and experiences of the Sixth Armored Division, serving under General Patton, and select World War II history. The latter two to provide some background as to what was going on as he wrote the letters.  While this book is still being fine-tuned, it is my goal that it will be published prior to the 75th Anniversary of the end of World War II in 2020.  I hope the book honors my Father and Mother, and others from that generation, particularly a few of my Uncles who also served. I’ve included excerpts in the book from some of their letters and a couple of my parents’ friends who served too.  Hopefully the book gives some insight into the lives of the many soldiers and civilians so greatly impacted by WWII.  With so many lives lost during that war, I know my Dad and our family were truly blessed during those war years, even those of us who were at the time still just a “twinkle in my parents’ eyes” as the saying goes.  Love and miss you Dad and you too Mom. Note: I’m proud to add that my father, 1st Sergeant George Donald (December 20, 1914 – October 7, 1995) was awarded the Bronze Star and the Silver Star for Valor in saving 15 to 20 men’s lives and received the Purple Heart for the three bullet wounds through his nose and shoulder in 1944. He also fought in the Battle of the Bulge and served in General Patton’s Sixth Armored Division, 44th Armored Infantry Battalion.

Tuesday, September 3, 2019

Fear Not!! It's Only Back to School Time!!



Pencils sharpened? Notebooks bought? Plenty of batteries on hand for the calculator? It's Heeerrreee -- BACK TO SCHOOL Time!! Personally, I always loved the first day of school. I remember playing school and planning what to wear weeks ahead of time! For me there was always Excitement in the Air at Back to School time! Cameras Flashing! Videos Rollin’! New Back Pack, Matching Lunchbox & sneakers! The Works!! And my favorite -- Beaming Smiles from my kids! 
Of course, these were mostly my feelings about Back to School, not always my kids' feelings!  They might have preferred a few more summer days sunning, staying up late and sleeping in! As they got older, they did dodge my video camera, but we always got that out the door, ready to go, first day of school photo that I’ll always cherish!!  Now just because it was a new school year, doesn’t mean it was going to be a perfect school year…of course I just didn’t know that then! In those days, what all started out good sometimes got a little CrAzY –at least at our house…And despite the Teacher and Mom’s efforts, CrAzY was how the night before a Test often seemed to be! Sorry to remind you of that part if you too are a survivor of helping your child study for a test but I promise you -- you are not alone! So now I ask you? Who’s afraid of a little MoMlife Truths? Not me and I hope not YOU!  I’ve hid MomLife Truths in The MoMmY-Go-RoUnD! So let me take you down Memory Lane where I promise to make you Laugh (and maybe wipe a few tears along the way!)! So Hang on to your Hats! Shop those Awesome Sales!! And Love your Kids EVEN on the Nights Before a Test!! Even when they have a blank look on their faces as you quiz them! Trust me -- it will all work out!! Three successful happy College grads and one with a Masters and another headed for Med school! Who would ever have thought this in those days?  So again Fear Not!! It's OnLy BaCK 2 ScHoOL!! Sooo Enjoy it!!

Excerpt from The MoMmY-Go-RoUnD’s Chapter 7: 8:00 p.m. "Mom, I have a test tomorrow."

Who knew that this would someday be a phrase that would strike terror in my heart? What's even more incredible is how making that statement somehow brings a sense of peace and tranquility to the child's heart....It’s like a transference of the responsibility for passing the test. Despite my many pleas over the years that we spread test preparation over at least two nights, my children seem to delight in an incredible sense of freedom (and forgetfulness) that first night and the prospect of jamming the studying of 25 pages of history, science, whatever into one teeny tiny evening....More interestingly is that somehow my children have gotten the crazy idea that if MOM memorizes the materials, they are guarantied an A+! No problem!! They must have this vision of me sitting in the desk beside them filling out the test and passing it over to them to put their name on. We’re a team, we’re family, she’s my Mom…Let me assure you, we’re close but NOT that close.

Did I torture my parents in this same way? I shudder to think. Of course, I can’t take full responsibility for this behavior. Having had the pleasure of reading my husband’s report cards when we first married (at which point his family must have believed it safe to bring them out of hiding….), my years of report cards reflecting the comment “too talkative” seem mild in comparison. As one teacher summed him up….if Steve required an effort to breathe, he would cease. Sounds to me like he enjoyed that same incredible sense of freedom which our kids now love, throughout the entire school year.

Now admittedly by having school age children, I have had the opportunity to re-learn all the things I blew off the first time around. And enjoy it too! Trust me, there is nothing more annoying to a child cramming for a test then to say things like….”Isn’t this interesting” or “I love history, don’t you?” All’s fair in love and tests. They come to me with open books and blank expressions on their faces. My feelings are that if they’re going to act like they never heard the test material before and put the burden on me to re-teach two weeks worth of lessons in one hour, then I reserve the right to be annoyingly cheerful and completely absorbed in the subject matter!

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Check out The MoMmY-Go-RoUnD and laugh with me through the rest of this chapter and many more! The MoMmY-Go-RoUnD where I get to share a little of the CrAzY, Lots of Love and Break that Motherhood Code Of Silence! Also Proud to say it’s the Winner of the 2016 Pacific Book Award for Best Parenting – Family Book and the 2016 Readers’ Favorite Bronze Winner! Also, if you can find a minute (I know that’s not easy for those of you who are parents! Maybe when you collapse after a day of school shopping!!), please check out my online profiles and 5 Star Reviews on the Independent Author Network, Reader’s Favorite, Seriously Reading where there’s a review and interview. The MoMmY-Go-RoUnD is available at The Whistlestop Bookshop, in store or online, Amazon, B&N and other Bookshops can order it too! Or download the ebooks available on KindleUnlimited! Hope you’ll check it out!


Monday, January 14, 2019

New 5 Star Review on Reader's Favorite Webpage!

 I was very excited to see a New 5 Star Review for The MoMmY-Go-RoUnD on the Readers' Favorite Website!  As one of their Bronze Winners in the Non-Fiction Parenting Category, and two time 5 Star Review books, I thrilled to see this! Hope you'll check it out!! Remember it's available on Kindle Unlimited now! Interestingly enough, I had just considered changing the name of the book to perhaps interest new readers --And guess what she mentioned in her last line! Thank you Susan!! I greatly appreciate this review!!



https://readersfavorite.com/book-review/the-mommy-go-round
(Note: Scroll down for the newest 5 Star Review! Thanks again Susan!)

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One of the aspects that I enjoyed about The Mommy-Go-Round was the way in which the author, Eleanor Alspaugh, wrote her collection of vignettes about motherhood. Her style of writing was simplistic yet her words were so very powerful.

As a mother of four grown children, I was able to relate to most of her experiences. It was reassuring to know that I wasn’t the only mother that found it challenging to juggle everything that came with a husband, children, every day life, and a job. I just wish that this book had been around when my children were younger and I used to be thrilled when I survived yet another day of motherhood. I think the humor, the realistic and relatable nature of the stories and the way in which Eleanor dealt with everything that was thrown at her would have been very reassuring to me. Her positive and “can do” attitude was refreshing as well. She sounds like the kind of mom that I wish was my neighbor when I was in the height of my parenting. With her down to earth and REAL perspective on life, I probably would have shared many laughs and tears with her as she helped me navigate the Mommy-Go-Round.

I found myself smiling and laughing as I read certain stories. In particular, the Birthday party prep, Musical Beds, and the Christmas essays hit home for me. This is a gem of a book that I think any mother or mother-to-be would enjoy. Lastly, the title that she chose happens to be spot on absolutely perfect.